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-====== Norse Ideals ======
+# Norse Ideals
-There were several qualities or ideals that the Norse believed were important. If a person embodied these in their mind, they would consider that person a drengr - a good person of repute. Since a person's reputation was considered very important, there was considerable pressure to live up to them, and significant drawbacks if they didn't.
-==== Courageous ====
+There were several qualities that the Norse considered essential to being an honorable person. Someone who lived by these values could be called a **drengr**—a person of good repute, strength, and self-respect.
-==== Dignified ====
+Reputation was everything. These ideals weren’t just personal—they shaped how your family, your village, and your gods judged you.
-==== Fair ====
+---
-==== Industrious ====
+## Courageous
-==== Hospitable ====
+To face danger with calm resolve, not recklessness. Courage is not the absence of fear, but doing what’s right **despite** fear. The Norse admired those who stood firm in battle, in hardship, and in defense of others.
-==== Self Reliant ====
+---
-==== Disciplined ====
+## Dignified
-==== Truthfull ====
+To carry yourself with self-respect and composure, even in difficult times. Dignity means acting with grace—never whining, never boasting, never losing control. A dignified person lifts others up simply by their presence.
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+## Fair
+To treat others with justice and balance. Being fair doesn’t mean being soft—it means honoring oaths, keeping your word, and judging all by the same standard, whether friend or stranger.
+---
+## Industrious
+To work hard without needing praise. Norse people valued those who could build, craft, grow, and repair. You didn’t wait for others to solve problems—you got your hands dirty and did what needed doing.
+---
+## Hospitable
+To welcome guests and strangers alike. Hospitality was sacred. You shared your fire, food, and roof with those in need—even if you didn’t like them. It showed strength, not weakness.
+---
+## Self-Reliant
+To stand on your own, take responsibility, and not burden others with things you can do yourself. Self-reliance meant you were prepared, capable, and trustworthy.
+---
+## Disciplined
+To control your anger, your greed, and your impulses. Discipline meant keeping your word, finishing what you started, and choosing long-term respect over short-term gain.
+---
+## Truthful
+To speak honestly, even when it’s hard. Lying was considered cowardly and shameful. A truthful person built trust, and trust held communities together.
+---
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-From [[http://www.hurstwic.com/history/articles/society/text/drengur.htm|Hurstwic]]: \\
+From [Hurstwic](http://www.hurstwic.com/history/articles/society/text/drengur.htm): \\\
 Snorri Sturluson wrote, "Valiant men who exert a good influence are called drengr." A drengr possessed bravery, nobility, magnanimity, a sense of fair play, respect for others, the strength to do what is right, and a sense of personal honor. Physical bravery was taken for granted. More important was self-control. A drengr showed equanimity in the face of danger, not because of insensitivity or stupidity, but because the danger and the possible risk to life and limb was unimportant compared to the need to maintain self-respect and the respect of the community. There was a practical side to such imperturbability, because not only was it unmanly to show concern or fear in the face of danger, but also useless.
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